One of the more frustrating things that occurs for both coaches, athletes, and gym owners alike is when an athlete decides to quit on their team at some point in the season.
Whether it is during grueling Summer practices, in the heat of competition season, or in the midst of post-season competitions, it is never not annoying for this type of thing to happen.
Perhaps even more challenging are circumstances when it is discovered that a parent or family member is actually encouraging this type of thing to take place.
Though it is quite clear to most involved in competitive sports that once you sign up for something, you see it through to the end, not everyone embraces this life-skill building etiquette.
Even talking about quitting is negative behavior that can be a bit poisonous to any organization.
If someone is not happy “somewhere”, typically they will ultimately not be happy “anywhere”.
Certainly behaviors can change, although leopards tend not to change their spots.
Quitting or even talking about quitting your team during the season hurts everyone involved – your teammates, your coaches, and even yourself.
All Star Cheer is a team sport that depends on every member to do their job. Each person has a specific role in stunts, pyramids, and routines. If one person quits, it can throw off the entire routine and force the team to start over, which wastes time and affects everyone’s progress.
When you commit to an All Star Cheer team, you are making a promise to your teammates and coaches to work together for the entire season. Breaking that promise can create feelings of frustration and disappointment among your team.
It’s not just about you – it’s about the group as a whole. Your teammates count on you to show up for practices, performances, and competitions.
Even just talking about quitting can bring down team morale and make others feel like they can’t rely on you.
Quitting mid-season also causes big challenges for your coaches.
They have spent months creating routines that include specific people in certain positions, like flyers, bases, and tumblers. If you leave, they have to rework the routine, find someone to take your place, and teach that person your part. This extra work can affect the entire team’s ability to perform their best at competitions.
For yourself, quitting can also hurt your personal growth. Cheer teaches important lessons about commitment, teamwork, and perseverance. When you stick with it, even when it gets hard, you build confidence and learn how to overcome challenges. If you quit, you might miss out on these valuable lessons and regret your decision later.
Instead of quitting or talking about quitting, talk to your coach or a teammate about how you’re feeling. They may be able to help you find solutions if you’re feeling overwhelmed or discouraged.
Remember, being part of a team means sticking together, even when things get tough.
In the end, your hard work and commitment will pay off, and you’ll be proud of what you and your team accomplish together!
